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Writers, you might want to bookmark this post (or pin it on Pinterest) for future inspiration! I wrote it because, as a romance novel editor, I often ask an author to put in another romantic scene—one in which the reader can tell the main characters are really falling in love (or already there!)

I also decided to write it because lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about iconic romance scenes in movies. The kiss in the rain in The Notebook. The “I’m flying!” scene in Titanic. In screenwriting, these kinds of memorable scenes are few and far between, but they can stick with the viewer—or the reader—forever.

I think setting can be one great inspiration for romance scene ideas. I’ve never seen the movie From Here to Eternity (I just started reading the book!), but most of us are familiar with the scene of the couple kissing while rolling around in the surf. If they’d just been lying in bed kissing, it would’ve been okay, but it wouldn’t have been iconic.

Big gestures can also make for memorable romantic scenes. You often see these in good romance novels and scripts!

This list is just to pique your imagination. I’m sure that as you read through these ideas, you’ll think of a bunch more!

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1. They’re alone in a usually crowded place where one of them has private access: for instance, a public aquarium at night.

2. One of them takes the other on an excursion on their boat, private plane, hot air balloon, or spaceship.

3. One of them helps the other one escape a difficult—or just deadly boring—situation.

4. One of them makes a dramatic appearance after the other one thought they were gone for good.

5. One of them does something or participates in something that the other one loves…after previously refusing to do so.

6. They’re in a beautiful natural setting: for instance, behind a waterfall, or in a grove of maple trees in autumn.

7. One of them serenades the other. (I shared an example of this in my last WIP Wednesday!)

8. One of them helps the other one unwind or fall asleep in a romantic way.

9. One of them wakes the other one up in a romantic way.

10. They play a game—croquet, darts, whatever—and the stakes are romantic: a first date, a kiss.

11. One of them shares something they love with the other, such as a work of art or a passage from a book.

12. One of them defends the other—from a snobbish comment or from a deadly attack.

13. One of them makes a big sacrifice for the other. (The example that comes to my mind is Ben resigning from his job so he can date Leslie in the TV show Parks and Recreation.)

14. They gaze at the stars…from a rooftop, an observatory, or the back of a pickup in the country.

15. They have to participate in something awkward or embarrassing together.

16. They have to lie or pretend about something together.

17. One of them is teaching the other how to do something, such as making a crepe or ice skating.

18. They take a walk on the beach. (Hey, sometimes you can’t beat the classics!)

19. One of them shows the other around—their small town, their workplace, their palace, or whatever.

20. One of them reveals their Big Secret to the other. Maybe it’s their True Form. Maybe it’s their Secret Headquarters.

21. One of them persuades the other to join them in skinny dipping.

22. They wind up volunteering together.

23. One of them gives the other a gift that required a lot of time, and/or money. Maybe the gift arrives or is discovered after a breakup!

24. They slow dance in a place where people don’t usually slow dance.

25. They share an intimate encounter in a place where people aren’t usually intimate.

Do you have thoughts about writing romantic scenes? Do you have a great example of a romance scene you’d like to share? Let us know in the comments below!

And if you like idea starters, be sure to check out my book 5,000 Writing Prompts. A lot of writers use it not only for starting new stories, but also for figuring out the middle of a story when they get stuck.

5,000 WRITING PROMPTS: A Master List of Plot Ideas, Creative Exercises, and More | BRYN DONOVAN |

Thanks so much for reading, and happy writing!

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