50 Romance Plot Ideas and Romance Writing Prompts

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On this list of romance writing prompts, I’ve tried to include ideas that could work for paranormal romance, fantasy, young adult, romantic suspense, contemporary romance, and more. As long as you put a fresh twist on them, they can all inspire unique love story ideas.

This is really a romance plot generator in list form, with big ideas for entire plots. Of course, to write an engrossing romantic story–whether it’s a straight-up romance, or a subplot in a different kind of book or movie–it has to have strong conflict. Like Shakespeare said, “The course of true love never did run smooth.” Obstacles give your characters the chance to change and grow as people, and to prove how much they really do love each other. It also gives them interesting things to do.



Some of these are cute romance plot ideas, and some could even be dark romance plot ideas. Obviously the possibilities here are endless. I’ve used pronouns randomly, and any of these plot starters can work for any pairing.

(By the way, if you’re writing romance, you might also be interested in my post about three great ways to show your character is in love.)

Even if you don’t use something from here, it may make you think of something else. That’s how lists work, which is why I like to do them!


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1. They have character flaws… Honestly, every real-life romance deals with this, and it should probably come up in any story about a relationship. Maybe he’s too selfish or lazy. Maybe she’s too rash, or too fearful. Maybe one of them is too negative, and needs to stop being so cynical. This could lead to one of them making a big, stupid mistake, and needing to make amends and get the other person’s forgiveness.

2. She’s already ruled him out… she made up her mind a long time ago that she would only marry a man with a title, or she would never date a biker again.

3. They are competitors… for the same job, the same championship, etc.

4. They are straight-up enemies… He wants to buy the land to build a resort, and she wants it to get turned into a nature sanctuary. He’s the defense attorney, and she’s the prosecutor. They’re soldiers on opposing sides of the war… the possibilities are endless here!

5. He already won… he inherited an estate that should have been hers, or he got the job that she was hoping to be promoted into, and she’s seething.

6. He broke her heart in the past. Maybe there was a good reason behind it, or maybe he was an idiot then and realizes it now. It’s possible he just ignored her.

7. She did her wrong in the past… or maybe she wronged her family member or friend. (Or did she? That family member or friend might have lied.)

8. He did something wrong in the past, period. Although she wasn’t the victim, it was pretty bad. How can she be sure he’s changed?

9. She has trust issues… her last relationship ended in a terrible betrayal.

10. He has intimacy issues… maybe because of a traumatic past, he feels too vulnerable if anyone knows about his real emotions or weaknesses. Maybe she’s a psychic, a behavioral expert, or just the one person who can see right through him… and it makes him uncomfortable as hell.

11. She doesn’t trust her dating choices… she’s gotten involved with several losers in a row, and she’s taking a break–maybe a permanent one.

12. She believes no one can truly love her… because she made a terrible mistake in the past, or she’s not attractive in the conventional manner, or she’s a “fallen woman” in a repressive era, or whatever.

13. They are good friends… and they don’t want to risk ruining their friendship by taking it to the next level.

14. They are co-workers… and they don’t want to make things weird at the office, bar, or wherever they both work.



15. She’s freaked out by who he really is… a werewolf, ex-con, or whatever.

16. He has a secret… he’s in a witness protection program, he’s a hacktivist, his father is literally the Devil, or something of that sort. (When she finds out, the conflict may turn into the one above. Or maybe she’ll surprise him and be like, “You’re a hacker? Dude, that is so hot.”)

17. It was supposed to be sex only… they were going to be friends with benefits, or maybe he’s a male escort. Falling in love goes against the original arrangement.

18. Their love was supposed to be fake… they were pretending to be in love or married, or they entered a marriage of convenience. It can’t be real, can it? On a related note…

19. He was faking it at first… he made a bet that he could bed her, or pretended to like her so he could learn her secrets and be the journalist who broke the story.

20. She was stuck with him… he’s a partner on a job when she wanted to do it by herself, or he rescued her when she was actually pretty happy where she was. She doesn’t want to admit she’s actually falling for him.

21. He has moral qualms… he’s her boss, her teacher, her captor, or something like that. Or maybe she’s the sister or ex-girlfriend or his best friend, and that gives him pause.

22. She’s a mess... She’s grieving the death of her husband, partner, or child, or she had PTSD from battle or some other terrible experience.

23. Their love is forbidden by others… it’s against the rules, spoken or unspoken, of their family, organization, community, or religion.

24. He’s into something she doesn’t like… it could be an addiction, like alcohol, laudanum, or gambling, or a profession, like boxing or defending corrupt clients in court. Whatever it is, she wants no part of it.

25. Their cultures clash… because he’s a modern man and she’s from ancient Greece, she’s a big-city girl and he’s a small-town boy, or whatever you like. This can overlap with the next one.

26. They are from different classes… he’s a duke and his boyfriend’s a commoner, for instance.

27. One of them is promised to someone else… maybe the wedding’s already planned and everything. S/he might have reasons for going through with a loveless marriage.



28. One of them is married to someone else… but it was some weird legal, not-consummated arrangement, or she ran away long ago because he was an abusive asshole…anyway, there’s a damn good reason why these marriage vows don’t hold much water.

29. She is infatuated with someone else instead of him… she doesn’t realize yet that this other person is awful.

30. She is interested in someone else in addition to him… and she’s having trouble making a decision. Maybe she refuses to choose.

31. Their time is together is limited… she’s going abroad to study in the fall, his work visa is almost up, or she’s about to go on a space mission to another planet, never to return… what’s the point of getting serious? The next one may be related to this.

32. Being together would require a big sacrifice… she has to say no to her dream job, he has to move away from his family, etc.

33. He’s a danger to her safety… because he’s a spy, a vampire, or something like that.

34. She’ll only make him unhappy… because she’s dying of a disease, suffering under a curse, can’t have children, or whatever. (Note that in many cases, this conflict may be exaggerated in the character’s mind.)

35. He’s ugly, freaky, or scary-looking... but once she gets to know him, she sees him differently (basically, Beauty and the Beast.)

36. She’s disguised as someone he would never fall for… a man when he’s only into women, a Republican when he’s a die-hard liberal, etc.

37. She may or may not be real at all… is it really possible he’s meeting a fairy or an alien in his visions or dreams?

38. They can’t get together in real life… there is an ocean or a few centuries between them.

39. He’s a suspect… in a murder or robbery case.

40. Her family is the worst… can he really get involved with that? Alternately, maybe she has a couple of kids, and while they are cute, this is not what he imagined for himself.

41. He thinks her town is the worst… and she really can’t leave. Can he really resign himself to living in New York City, when his cowboy heart longs for Montana skies?

42. He’s got a reputation… as materialistic douche, a heartless womanizer, a stone cold killer, or some other despicable thing.

43. They have terrible first impressions of one another… and it’s a little hard to admit they were wrong. They might have gotten off to an awful start by arguing over something.

44. She loves her freedom… and always saw herself as the carefree type who would never settle down.

45. He doesn’t want distractions… he has one very important job to do, and he can’t afford to get sidetracked.



46. He loves her, but she doesn’t know him… maybe he knows her from an alternate universe, or maybe she has amnesia.

47. She’s not supposed to ever fall in love and/or have sex… maybe she’s a nun or vestal virgin, or a cyborg for whom sex is illegal, or a unicorn herder, or something.

48. He’s trying to control her… because he doesn’t want her to be ostracized by Victorian society, or to be in danger by becoming a firefighter. But nobody bosses her around, so that’s not going to fly.

49. He doesn’t see her in a romantic way… for instance, she’s the kid sister of his best friend, and he still thinks of her as a kid.

50, The  job is getting in the way… Look, it’s hard to be romantic when you’re working 24/7 on a political campaign, or helping fellow victims of the airplane crash survive in the mountains.

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If you liked the list, I hope you’ll share it on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, or wherever you can with writer friends. I truly appreciate it!

What’s that? You want even more plot ideas? Then check out my book 5,000 Writing PromptsIt has 100 more romance writing prompts in addition to the ones on this list, plus hundreds of other master plots by genre, dialogue and character prompts, and much more.


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Happy writing!

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179 thoughts on “50 Romance Plot Ideas and Romance Writing Prompts”

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    From different cultures he is too shy to talk to her or lock eyes with her. Intrigued while not careing for romance she approches him.

  3. So my romance is two girls and they are both in high school. They both have awful pasts and when they get together they both change in a good way. One of them actually smiles again and the other learns that she can trust people. So at the beginning (still in the planning phase) they are separated and very different. One of them is popular and the other is an outcast who gets made fun of. When the popular girls make fun of her the other one tries to stand up for her. But that is the beginning i need a plot for the rest of the story. Also this is my first romance and first full on LGBTQ+ story. I would really appreciate some help! I love the two characters i created but i have not plot which is annoying.

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  5. Hi Bryn, I’m a German writer and just ended up here in your very helpful Blog while doing endless research: names, setting, plotting, history… I never would have expected having an “aha-moment” in an English Blog. My unfinished story actually has been my hidden treasure for more than 20 years. Sounds too long to keep it in my heart ? Yes, that’s how I felt during this year. It has to come out, strongly, can’t hold it anymore. Suddenly, entire chapters flood out of my mind and I needed to start an additional pocketbook to write down quick ideas. That feels good and I become totally attached to my own writings. But maybe that’s normal? Funnily enough, my very first idea was a fantasy story for teenager, now it has changed into a fantasy romance and I am totally thrilled. My characters grew up with me. And your romance plots gave me new ideas and new confidence to go on and reach out for the end, even though I don’t know where my story will end. Still my strongest enemy is the plot. I’m a pantster I guess. I must say, the Corona pandemic has led me into a “rush hour of writing”, because there’s more time to spend at home now. That’s the one good thing. Thank you for all those helpful posts and stay healthy!

  6. An old post but thanks so much anyway! I do write a lot, but since I don’t write romance I use this a lot for daydreaming, haha. Great prompts 🙂

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